A comment from a past Design Character student: “The stuff we work through is quite obvious when you think about it… but we don’t really think about it, until you ask us to.” This captures the essence of our journey toward clarity. It’s not about discovering something new, but about uncovering the truths that lie within us. As you gain this clarity, you’ll notice a shift in how you communicate. Your words will carry more weight, your presence will be felt, and others will listen more intently. This is the potency of clarity—it breeds a quiet, unshakable confidence that resonates in everything you do. Quiet confidence is our jam at this human! You've got this. Love,
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"When we honour an ending, the connection deepens, even as it dissolves." Hi Everyone, The quote from the previous newsletter seems so appropriate, so I kept it. Thank you Ben! I'm writing to let you all know this will be last newsletter you receive from This Human. You can still buy the books of course, and anywhere amazing life changing books are sold ;-) but we won't be publishing this newsletter anymore. Thank you to Ben McEwing who's been the curator of this for the last year or so. For...
"When we honour an ending, the connection deepens, even as it dissolves." Endings are everywhere right now. This past fortnight, I (Ben) have moved through many; the completion of my master’s degree, the close of a group process I co-facilitated, the final moments of a retreat, and the end of the calendar year itself. Each one held an invitation: Be here for this. In this week’s article, I reflect on the power of endings and what happens when we actually give them our presence. Because when...
"What am I wanting from this relationship that I’m not getting...and is this the place to be getting it?" Sometimes, the tension in a work relationship isn’t about the work at all. It’s about the roles we’re unconsciously playing. In this week’s article, Ben reflects on a powerful framework he encountered in a workshop with Dirk Appel (Essence in Process). It explores how we sometimes bring the dynamics of other relationships...parent/child, friendship, even romantic partnership...into...