This worksheet will help you transform your awareness of your limiting beliefs into new beliefs that are more enabling. You will brainstorm several options and then choose one you want to enact and embody. And the BIG TIP here is to follow the energy. What does that mean? The way you will know which new belief to choose is to notice the one that makes you feel most energised. This could show up as a feeling of expansion, warmth, lightness, zinginess, or relief. You may also notice your body taking a big, natural, relaxing breath. That is your nervous system saying you've nailed it. Go team! You've got this,
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Enabling senior design professionals to be more influential within their organisations. ✨ Author of this human and design character, published by BIS Publishers.📚
"When we honour an ending, the connection deepens, even as it dissolves." Endings are everywhere right now. This past fortnight, I (Ben) have moved through many; the completion of my master’s degree, the close of a group process I co-facilitated, the final moments of a retreat, and the end of the calendar year itself. Each one held an invitation: Be here for this. In this week’s article, I reflect on the power of endings and what happens when we actually give them our presence. Because when...
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"Repair doesn’t require grand gestures. It just requires someone to go first." Ruptures in relationships are inevitable. But repair? That’s a choice. In this week’s article, Ben reflects on a recent moment where he initiated repair with someone he’d felt hurt by. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it. We walked, we talked, we owned our parts. And by the end, something had lifted: the tension, the story, the distance. Repair isn’t about blame or being right. It’s about willingness. The...