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This Human by Melis Senova

🎬 End of an Era

Published 5 months ago • 1 min read

"When we honour an ending,
the connection deepens,
even as it dissolves."

Hi Everyone,

The quote from the previous newsletter seems so appropriate, so I kept it. Thank you Ben!

I'm writing to let you all know this will be last newsletter you receive from This Human. You can still buy the books of course, and anywhere amazing life changing books are sold ;-) but we won't be publishing this newsletter anymore. Thank you to Ben McEwing who's been the curator of this for the last year or so.

For the last several years, I've been holding three distinct roles—human-centered design leader, executive leadership coach, somatic psychotherapist. Wonderful work has happened in each of these places. As I move into the final season (!) in my career, I'm leaning into something that more closely aligns to where I am now:

Private stewardship for leaders at moments of consequence.

This work is different to what I've held before. It's not about optimisation or performance. It's about discernment when decisions carry real weight.

I intend to walk beside those who wish to take responsibility for what gets set in motion when they make decisions, so they can make them from clarity rather than pressure or momentum.

The work typically serves senior leaders, founders, or people at significant thresholds. Which means some of you may not continue to remain in relationship with my work—and that's completely as it should be. I wanted to let you know what's shifting, because we've been in conversation for a while now.

If you're a leader facing consequential decisions, or interested in learning about navigating thresholds at times of great consequence I'm at melissenova.com. I'm writing on Substacknow—see whether it resonates with where you are.

Thank you for being part of what we built, I'm so grateful to all of you for believing in this work. I hope that by being here you've had a place to learn, connect and feel a little less alone in a world that continues to drive us apart.

I'd love to see you over at Substack, or reach out directly through the contact page on my website.​

Sending you all a big hug. 🌻

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Ashburton, 3147
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This Human by Melis Senova

Helping designers lead.

Enabling senior design professionals to be more influential within their organisations. ✨ Author of this human and design character, published by BIS Publishers.📚

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